Ok
This maybe start getting some sense
@bomber, @Sanhozay
If I use the mouse I can center my aileron and my elevator slightly off-axis, and I can let the plane flight in a safe nice climb with stable straight path (and again, as I said before, I love the reaction of the plane in the air, its gentle and obedient, with good response to wing surface deflections)
image a

Now, if I press #5 in keyboard, centering all my axis, then hell brakes loose. (due to not having any trim set, off course) the prop wash takes over laterally and the roll I get is serious business.
Notice the elevator position too in image b below. As I center elevators without the trim, then my plane gets on a real climb-climb-climbnow attitude until I can't anymore (airspeed drop, drag increase) and I get a nose down attitude on the left roll.
It does not fall from the skies. It just gently rolls and spins (really must make video)....
image b

So here's the thing.
1. Per Sanhozay the aileron trim is unrealistic to expect here. Ok
2. Is the elevator trim also a dream of FG pilots that RL dog-fliers dont enjoy?
This means, that the pilot is married to push and pull the yoke to get a level flight.
My joystick centers itself. Unless I keep deflecting. That's why I have exquisite flying control on the stick, but I must keep pushing and pulling right or the plane behaves as described above.
Question #2/ Elevator trims?