simbambim wrote:@Israel
we stop exaggerating the importance of his opinion and evaluate first whether his ideas/objections to our ideas are reasonable. E.g. why does he need to have the last word on whether there will be a poll on "Fall always in Europe"?
I hope we don't exaggerate his importance. It is my understanding he does not have the last word. He has his word, as you do yours, and I do mine.
Why does his single person's opinion "we must vote on this" carry more weight than our communal "this doesn't need voting because it's an established tradition"?
Following two threads, both very long, is hard, so I may be misinformed. But has Lydiot suggested any going to vote or any poll? If so, what is such poll.
Who has said, after all, that the Festival has to be organized on the official forum? It could be organized on a mailing list, for example. It could be even organized secretly! (not a suggestion, just saying) And what is wrong with a minority decision, if the majority is silently accepting it, with only one person in opposition? See, these are just loud words, but if you look at what they really mean, the reality is that the organizers of a mass event are always a small group (minority) and it is not only their right, but their duty to take initiatives and make decisions.
We agree on this. Where we organize and how we organize is not bound to be in Curtis' Forum. If I am to be involved in such organization, the place where I can interact with anyone interested in something different except committing digital seppuku, is here.
So see, that turns the tables completely. He is trying to position himself as the representative of the majority on the basis that he is in the official forum with the majority of users, but the reality is, among contributors he is a minority and he is alone with his unreasonable scrutiny and insane demands for voting everything. So why let ourselves be intimidated by his hysteria about "minority decision"?
Is he? I would accept he has his voice, and it counts as one. I won't accept his voice carrying the weight of the silent majority. The silent majority, for all practical purposes, is silent.
This is the fourth time organizing the festival, everything is more or less settled, we are still hearing everyone who has something to say and giving feedback to the larger community, the poll about the location will take place where the majority of users are and will be handled by elgaton. Lydiot has nothing more than his two votes to cast.
Yes. and yes.
The poll or the polls. Depending on what we conclude between Option 1 and Option 2 above.
Now, if you're saying that we should still hold him more important than the average user because of respect for him or because of his past contributions, I'll say that after the way he treated me, I have zero respect for him any more and zero wish to collaborate with him on one project.
If you think that thisLydiot wrote:Whatever dude. Take a Valium. Though I doubt it'll help you follow a conversation which you clearly are completely incapable of. I'll just put you on ignore for now.
is just "things getting tense", I'm afraid you're missing something. This is an insult that should have been removed by moderators within minutes without thinking twice, yet it is still there after two days and repeated requests for removal and Lydiot is showing no signs of regret.
Would we take seriously anyone else who came demanding that everything be his way and spitting other contributors in the face? Even if he had the best of ideas? Then why are we tolerating Lydiot's behaviour?
1) He has no more importance than the average user. He has no less either.
2) to keep clear points: I think Lydiots' statements crossed the line of respect. I side with you on that. Don't break your head about asking Curtis' Forum moderators for that to be removed. You are not in the list of untouchables that they have under their belt. Go Lydiot say much much less to Thorsten or Curtis, and see the reaction. I already told you, their moderation manipulations are a biased joke intended to portray a reality. That you get insulted like this has no value in their theatre.
3) AFAIK he has not spit any contributor in the face. But he has definitely come across as rude to you in those statements above. If I read his post above correctly he is not considering an apology to you either
But this is the situation. The festival is not MY event. I don't get to have last words either. On the other hand, I advise you to take his words for what they are worth. He does not own it either -- IIRC. He puts you on the ignore list, but your word still counts exact as much as his to make any decision you both want to weight in.
And let me remind you that you sugggested this yourself and that the problem with the poll that existed then now has been resolved.
Yes. On the current issue at hand (poll 1 or poll 2), I stand by my word. We need to weight each opinion on the matter, and do what that concludes. viewtopic.php?f=31&t=156&hilit=outnumber&start=220#p2698